Self Development through Realization

As all of you know, this year has not been good so far. Novel Corona Virus (also known as COVID-19) has struck all over the world and has been listed as a global pandemic. All the governments have issued lockdowns advising everyone to remain in their houses. In fact, a lot of young people are bored staying inside the house all the time. Some people come up with something creative, some people finish their to-do lists and some people wonder how to pass time. People who complain about time, especially those who are sitting idle these days, are now provided with a big amount of time. Many youngsters don't have an aim or an ambition to drive them forward in their lives. And that is when the thought of "Why not understand and develop ourselves during the lockdown?" popped up.

Self-realization is a process where you try to find your full potential and finally recognize yourselves. It is the basic step required for self-actualization. It helps you understand the following:

• Discover who you truly are.
• Find out what is hidden inside you.

Let me tell you about my method of self-understanding. Try this and see if it yields good results.

• Sit down at a place where you find yourself calm and relaxed. A place with a view of the natural beauty is more preferred as it makes your mind get some peace. 
• Think about yourself: How was your life so far? What is currently happening in your life? What expectations did you have? Was it achieved? If not, why? Will you be successful if you continue this way? Do you need to change? and so on...
• Explore each and every domain of your interest.
• Try to recollect memories that made you feel successful. 
• Identify your strengths and weaknesses.
• Note it down and keep it safe.

Now, as you have realized who you really are, try to devise a plan for your successful future. Identify where you are weak and develop strategies to overcome your weakness one at a time.

Here are some ways which you can practice to attain a better self during this lockdown:

• Learn a new skill. Learning a skill always extends your capability to a new level. Make sure that the skill acquired helps you in your career as well.
• Improve your existing skills. Its something which many people usually tend to forget. Polish your existing skills along with learning a new one.
• Exercise regularly. Keeping yourself healthy and fit is a necessary requirement for your survival. Do some exercise challenges or have a plan to work out regularly.
• Practice meditation. Meditation is the best way to increase focus and concentration. Try to meditate for at least 10 minutes a day and increase the time as you go.
• Interact with people online. Communication skills are very much essential for your self-development and you must practice in order to gain impressive communication skills.
• Build a reading habit. Reading is the best way to gain knowledge. Start reading what is beneficial for you. Improve your knowledge through reading.
• Be organized. Being organized is something most people find hard to be done. And, this is one special skill that distinguishes successful people from the ordinary. Make a to-do list, prioritize your needs, and try to finish the tasks inside a specific deadline.
• Keep yourself motivated. One biggest truth that people don't realize is that there is nobody to motivate you better than yourself. Other people in your life are temporary. They come into your life unexpectedly and leave after some time. But, you are permanent. So, nobody knows you better than yourself. Talk to yourself, in front of a mirror or visualize your copy standing in front of you.

I am very much sure that these practices will definitely exhibit the results you desired in your life. Be enthusiastic, find happiness in what you do, and develop from who you are to what you want to be. Ultimately, it is your life and you are the only one responsible for your happiness and success.

Cheers. Have a great day.